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An online diary of someone who tends to forget easily.

Texting & Emotional Distancing

It has become ordinary to send a text to break up or to say I love you for the first time. It’s a way to play it safe and escape from difficult emotions. Breaking up by text avoids the hard parts of rejection. Avoiding the hard parts is what emotional distancing is all about. Fear and lack of courage are the driving forces in too many relationships.


Emotional distancing means being afraid of feelings. This is understandable because feelings are a tricky business, they seem to have a life of their own and are often mysterious. Emotional distancing is to avoid the risk of learning about feelings. The strategy that underlies emotional distancing is to shut feelings down and stay logical to be safe. The problem with this strategy is that it is too lopsided.


The goal in aging and maturity is to achieve greater range, greater possibilities to who you are. Emotional distancing shuts down half of your potential. One of the best parts of aging well is using your logical, thinking brain right along with your heart full of feelings. The goal is to access both.


We often tilt and favor one more than the other and that’s ok. Those that believe feelings are the ultimate guide to life and relationships need to learn that feelings love to play tricks on you. Women often are partial to their feelings as if they are a barometer of some deep truth. Feelings are unreliable, exaggerate, love drama and chaos. Feelings enjoy fear, like the dessert section of the buffet bar at Hoss’s. Men, love logic and the comfort of thinking things through oh, so carefully and often they carry a fire extinguisher to feelings. Again, we all need access to both to create relationships that work and will endure.


So how does one learn to survive in the messy business of feelings? Back in 1980, I worked with victims of incest (in a culture that did not believe it existed) many of whom were very emotionally shut down after their trauma. I created a technique with different feeling words on each card. This list is called Feeling Vocabulary list and is printable from my website www.therapyideas.net, it is on the Emotions & Emotional Honesty page. Anyone can begin by practicing the language of feelings.


Skim through the list and then consider your day, and ask yourself about your feelings. Give them a chance to brew a bit and then explore, is there something you need to share or say to someone else or do differently? Work through your fears of being rejected and arm yourself with the new idea that being more authentic adds spice to a relationship. Feelings are interesting and if you respect them, they will change. People get stuck in feelings because they’ve hoarded them and stayed silent which encourages them to linger.


Emotional distancing only has the appearance of safety. Squelching feelings is just as bad as hoarding them. Remember that everyone is afraid, relationships require a tremendous amount of talking about feelings. You have a far better chance at lasting beyond those easy, glorious, mushy beginnings the more you practice sharing feelings. It’s the practice of sharing that builds trust and intimacy. Stop relying on texting to take the easy way out.


Source:
http://relationshiprealities.wordpress.com/2010/03/29/texting-emotional-distancing/

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My Fair Lady FMV


 

This is one of the soundtracks of the Korean drama series MY FAIR LADY. This is one of the KDramas that I want to watch one of these days. I've been planning to buy its DVD but I can't find it. I hope I will be able to buy one so I can start watching it. If you will watch this fan made video that I found on Youtube, I think you'll agree with me if I'll say that it will be an interesting KDrama to watch. ^^v

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Too Beautiful To Lie FMV


I wrote something about this movie before. I just love it and while checking a fanvid on Youtube, I found this one! Go check and watch this fan made video for the Korean movie TOO BEAUTIFUL TO LIE aka DON'T BELIEVE HER. Try to watch the movie and I'm sure you'll love it too. There is no boring scene and it will really make you laugh and happy. Enjoy ^^v

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Plan On Forever MV



PLAN ON FOREVER
Sue Ann Carwell and Mervyn Warren

I have planned my life, to the last detail
With a story book romance to fill my days
But the funny thing about answered prayer
Is they come to you in unexpected ways

How could I plan on forever?
When I never planned on you
Someone to fall for
To love for all eternity
Baby let's plan on forever
And watch all our dreams come true
You're what I live for
Who I can give for ever to
My destiny is you

Cause you danced with me, and the earth stood still
My heart can't quite believe how right this seems
When you're in my arms the truth of us
Is better than the best of all my dreams

How could I plan on forever?
When I never planned on u
Someone to fall for
To love for all eternity
Baby let's plan on forever
And watch all our dreams come true
You're what I live for
Who I can give forever to
My destiny is u

Sometimes the one you're right
for is standing too close to see
But u saw the light and never gave up on me

Baby, let's plan on forever
And watch all our dreams come true
You're what I live for
Who I can give for ever to
Now I see
My destiny
Is you

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In Good Time MV


IN GOOD TIME
Jessica Sheely


We can make believe
That everything makes sense
And there's no need to worry now
Coz' you're not like all the rest

Living with only your heart
A new day arrives & its only the start
Of Something already here
The sky's open up
And its perfectly clear

*It's all waiting for you
You can take the world
And give it your own name
It's all there waiting for you
No matter what you find
You will never be the same

Smile for the picture man dear
Its another day, another dream, another new year
And who knows what you'll find
But it's all comin' round
All in good time

Repeat *

When you're standing alone
Facing the darkness
I did know (I did know)
I know your light will never fade away.

Repeat *

It's all waiting for you
Like flowers in the spring
The world is open wide
It's all there waiting for you
With the spirit that you bring
You will always be the one to shine

...In good time

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Should I STOP or GO?

 I'm so busy downloading songs and writing my entry tonight for my blog when my crazy computer suddenly shut down and automatically restarted. FUCK! Yes that's what I said. I'm so pissed because my PC is in Deep Freeze mode so everything I did before it restarted were all removed. Songs I downloaded were not saved, my composition for my blog was not also recovered so I have to write it again. -_-

Oh well, what I want to write about tonight is CONFUSION. Yes, I'm a confused woman again in a situation I'm in right now. As I have mentioned in my previous post, I like someone right now. A not so physically attractive and tall man but someone who caught my attention because of his admirable personality..sense of humor.. and for being so simple yet admirable. We're getting closer and closer as we continue to get to know each other by texting...and it starts to confuse me if I'm doing the right thing. I tried to distance myself just to avoid feeling something more than a crush. I don't want to get used to it. I'm just so
scared of what might happen if I continue to be in this kind of situation. I don't want to be controlled by my emotion. I want to control it as much as possible.

I even asked for a sign if I should STOP or GO and the result is to STOP. Being so stubborn, I didn't follow the sign. I'm just so happy when I talk to him. I smile and laugh a lot and I can't stop myself from communicating with him. I still plan to try to distance myself from him little by little. I don't want to be noticed that I suddenly want to avoid him whatsoever.

I've been through 3 failed relationships. All of them started in texting, then we've gotten closer, courtship began, we fall in love, got in a relationship, and then at the end, I was left, broken hearted. It's hard to trust again. I thought my experiences made me a better and wiser me. Well, maybe it did, but somehow I really find it hard to decide whether to stop or continue being like this. I want to give it a try but I'm just so scared.

I'm so confused right now. I'm thinking too much about it. I like him and he is one of those people that makes me laugh a lot these days. He makes me happy.

He once said he's happy when he's texting, chatting, and talking to me. I think he likes me..but there are times that I'm telling him things that will make him not say how he feels for me. I don't know. I'm just scared, confused, but I'm happy.

I think I need more time to think about it. Whatever friendship we have right now, I want to enjoy it. What comes after that...I think that's something I need to think of. I have a bad habit of thinking too much. Sometimes I hate this habit...but I know it is better than not thinking carefully about some things and letting your heart to rule over your head. I've done that before and I got hurt. This time, I need to use BOTH.

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Forever And A Day


I don't always watch Pinoy movies unless they have good stories and good actors. While reading a blog I found an entry about a new Pinoy romantic movie entitled 'Forever and a Day'. I don't like the actors especially the girl but when I watched the trailer I realize it might be an interesting movie to watch. Its director is also known to be someone to always produce great movies.

Here is the trailer of the movie. I really like the line when Eugene asked why the Raffy is running away from him. Raffy says that she is afraid that she might fall in love with him. That's what I feel right now... I want to walk away or distance myself from someone because I'm afraid that I might fall...but then here I am..can't do anything but to enjoy and see where will it take me. I'm not in love..but I'm happy. Thanks to someone. ^^v


Just a guess, I think Raffy has a disease like Cancer or whatever.. :p

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Guess what?! I like you! ^^

As I've been saying over and over again, I've been living happily Single for 3 years now. As far as I know I still like it though there are times that loneliness and sadness strikes me. Well, I think it's normal to feel what I feel right now. Not until I started knowing someone.


Let me tell you about this someone. Mmm.. well, we always meet, like everyday because we work in the same company. I don't know when did I start liking him.. I just know that I do. 


When I'm still new to the Company, my close friend once asked me which among the guys do I find attractive and interesting. In short, who's my crush among the male employees here. At first I said no one, then she keeps on asking so I said it was him. I wasn't serious that time. I chose him because I like his personality and he looks cool to me.


We're not really close until we started texting each other. We're closer now than we are before. We always tease each other, talk about our pets, movies, etc. Lately I found myself laughing whenever I think about what we are talking about. His sense of humor is one of the things I really like about him.


Most of the employees here are already in a relationship except me, him, and his cousin. They sometimes tease us but it's not really a big deal. I understand why they do it. We're both single, they love teasing us sometimes, and it makes them laugh, so I just smile when they do that.



Sometimes I'm worried with what's happening lately. I don't know where will this lead. Yes, I have a bad habit of thinking too much about a lot of things including this one. I'm confused but the situation right now...this friendship...it makes me happy.


He doesn't know this...but I like him...and he makes me happy. ^^v
Hey, you, guess what? I like you! ^^v

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Too Beautiful to Lie

Too Beautiful to Lie aka Don't Believe Her (Korean Movie)



This is a very interesting and hilarious Korean movie! I don't mind watching it over and over again. I love everything about it. The cast, the story, the places in the movie, everything! It made me laugh a lot. There is no boring scene in this movie. I like it a lot.. or should I say I really love it?! 


You should really watch this film and I'm very sure you'll laugh a lot. A very simple, light, interesting, and very funny movie. I really recommend it.


Here is the plot of the story.


"Yeong-ju" is a cute, innocent looking girl with an excellent deception skills who is imprisoned for fraud. But using her talent she managed to go through the evaluation and able to receive a parole for her only sister's wedding. She boards a train with wooden crafted geese which she handcrafted as for her sister's wedding gift. But during the journey she is confronted by an innocent village boy "Hui-cheol". He is also on his way to propose his love to his girlfriend with his deceased mother's family heirloom ring. New problems begin when Yeong-ju witnessing pickpocket man stealing the ring from Hui-cheol. Driven mad by her own safety she stole the ring back, to make everything back to normal. But unfortunately for her, she is unable to board the train on time thus missing it and leaving her wedding gift bag on the train.


Determined to find her bag, she tracks down Hui-cheol and reaches his village looking for him. Making things more complicated everybody misunderstood her and welcomed her as their daughter-in-law due to the ring. Unwilling to tell them the truth due to her own safety and get time to resumption of her bag she manages to fool everyone around the family and manipulate Hui-cheol as father of her unborn child. Meanwhile, Hui-cheol who didn’t have the ring to make the marriage proposal comes back empty with a heavy heart, and is enraged when he finds the plot that has been going on while he was away. But worsening his situation, no one actually believes him, thinking he had abandoned his poor fiancee, and ended up kicked him out of the house making his life more miserable.


Now the dramatic showdown between Yeong-ju and Hui-cheol, truth vs. lie begins. Who would win? Will Yeong-ju manage to retain her bag or Hui-cheol manage to retain his ring?


Check the movie trailer or watch it with Eng Subs on Youtube. Enjoy! ^^v


Source:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Too_Beautiful_to_Lie

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Jetman Ending

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5 more minutes - reblogged

Five More Minutes
Posted By KiranKumar Roy


While at the park one day, a woman sat down next to a man on a bench near a playground. “That’s my son over there,” she said, pointing to a little boy in a red sweater who was gliding down the slide. “He’s a fine looking boy” the man said. “That’s my daughter on the bike in the white dress.”


Then, looking at his watch, he called to his daughter. “What do you say we go, Melissa?” Melissa pleaded, “Just five more minutes, Dad. Please? Just five more minutes.” The man nodded and Melissa continued to ride her bike to her heart’s content. Minutes passed and the father stood and called again to his daughter. “Time to go now?”


Again Melissa pleaded, “Five more minutes, Dad. Just five more minutes.” The man smiled and said, “OK.” “My, you certainly are a patient father,” the woman responded.


The man smiled and then said, “Her older brother Tommy was killed by a drunk driver last year while he was riding his bike near here. I never spent much time with Tommy and now I’d give anything for just five more minutes with him. I’ve vowed not to make the same mistake with Melissa. She thinks she has five more minutes to ride her bike. The truth is, I get Five more minutes to watch her play.”


Moral: Life is all about making priorities, and family is one and only priority on top of all other, so spend all time you can with loved ones.


Source:
http://misc-story.blogspot.com/2011/06/five-more-minutes.html

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Why all of a sudden...?

"If he really loves you, it won't take another man for him to realize that."


I saw this tweet from a Twitter acccount that I'm following and I liked it so I hit on Retweet. I also shared it on my Facebook because I really agree on this quote. 


There is someone that I used to like. Back then he didn't like me as much as I did. I didn't felt I was special or anything because he seems to be interested with other girls. When I told him my feelings I felt I was dumped. He said I don't deserve someone like him so we decided to remain as good friends. 


Last week I remember telling him I'm starting to like someone else. From then on, he started acting weird. He seems to be so attentive and sweet to me now compared to how he is before. He used to ignore and wait for my message before chatting with me. He always seems busy so we don't always talk to each other for almost a month... until now. He started sending messages and talking about things that confused me. He even wrote something I thought is a Love Letter but I later found out that it's the lyrics of a song. He said it's what he feels for me but I didn't appreciate it. He didn't directly told me he likes or loves me. He just wrote the lyrics and I have to find something that can translate it because he wrote it in Korean.


What confuse me is that, why is he acting like this when I'm starting to like someone else? Does it really take another man before he say those things to me? Does he really need to hurt me before telling how he really feel for me? I don't even know if he's serious because he's always telling me such things and saying he was just kidding.


I don't know if I should ignore him but I feel a bit confused on how he acts lately. He's really a very confusing person. I don't know what to believe anymore. If only he can tell me everything in a serious way.. not in a way that would make me feel I'm being teased whatsoever.


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Korean Phrases

I love you - Ssa rang hae
I hate you - Mee woh/Ssil uh
Get out - Na ga
I like you - Na nu joh ah

I'm hungry - Bae go pah
Breakfast - Ah chim
Lunch - Jum shim
Dinner - Ju nyuk
Snack - Gwan shik
Kitchen - Buu huk

Song- no reh
Dance - choom
Singer - Gah soo
Actor/actress - Bae hoo

FORMAL

How are you? - annyeonghaseyo?
I'm fine, thanks. And you? - Nae, annyeonghaseyo?
Thank you. - gamsahamnida
Sorry - Joesonghamnida

INFORMAL

How are you doing? - jal isseosseo?
I'm fine. - jal isseosseo

Nothing special - geunyang
Really? - jeongmal?
Are you serious? - jinjja?
Oh, yeah? - geurae?
You're lying! - geojinmal!
Are you lying? - geojinmariji?
Don't lie! - geojinmal ma!
Stop lying! - geojinmal hajima! geunman hae!
( "geumanhae" can also be said as ENOUGH )
I don't believe it - mideul su ga eopseo!
You're joking! - nongdamiji!
You're not joking? - nongdam aniji?
I'm not joking - nongdam aniya.

I guess so - geureoket jji
Maybe - geureol kkeoya
Maybe not - anil kkeoya
I don't care - sang gwan an hae
I'm not interested - gwansim eopseo
You're crazy! - neo micheosseo!
Don't! - hajima!

I like it ! - joa!
- Me too - nado

One moment - jamkkanman gidaryeo
Not now - jigeummeun an dwae
I don't know - molla
Let's go! - gaja!
Hurry up - ppalli ppalli

Do you understand? - arasseo?
Can you understand me? - nae mal iaehae?
I don't understand - iaega an dwae
I didn't understand - jal mollasseo
I couldn't understand - iaehal ssuga eopseosseo

Let's speak Korean! - han gungmallo haja!

I don't want to talk - yaegihago sipjji ana
I don't want to hear about it - geureon mal deut kko sipjji ana
Don't make excuses! - byeonmyeong haji ma
Stop complaining - bulpyeong jom hajima

I'm going - na gal kkeoya
I'm not going - na an gal kkeoya
Don't go! - gaji ma!
I'm going/leaving - na ganda
Shall we go? - uri galkka?
Where are you going? - neo eodiga?

I'm hungry - na baegopa
Have you eaten? - neo bap meogeosseo?
I haven't eaten yet - ajik an meogeosseo
I'm thirsty - na mongmalla
Wow! This tastes god! - wa! masit tta!
More! More! - Deo! deo!
Water - mul
Give me some - na jom jwo
Enough? - chungbunae?

I'm bored - simsimae!
I feel sick - na apa.
I'm going crazy - na michigesseo
I'm mad - na hwanasseo
I'm sleepy - na jollyeo
I'm tired - na pigonae
I'm dissappointed - na silmanghaesseo
What a pity! - cham an dwaetta
I can do it - na hal su isseo

Hello - yeoboseyo
Wait a minute - jamkkanman
What are you doing? - jigeum mwo hae?
Shall we meet now? - jigeum mannalkka?
I wanna see you - na neo bogo sipeo
I can't go out now - jigeum mannaga
I'll call you tomorrow - naega naeil jeonwahalkke
Bye! - jal isseo! (normally said by the person who called)
Yes - geurae

just some corrrections ^^

FAMiLY TERMS
Shik Ggu - Family sheek goo
Wae Kah Jib - Mom's Family
Sam Choon - Uncle (mom's brother)
Soon Moh - Uncle's Wife (mom's sister-in-law)
Ee Moh - Aunt (mom's sister)
Ee Moh Boo - Uncle (mom's brother-in-law)

Chin Kah Jib - Dad's Family
Ko Mo - Aunt (dad's sister) go mo
Ko Mo Boo - Aunt's Husband (dad's brother-in-law) go mo boo
Keun Ah Buh Jee - Uncle (dad's oldest brothers)
Keun Um Ma - Aunt (dad's older brother's wife)
Jjah Keun Ah Buh Jee - Uncle (dad's oldest brother's younger brother) ja geun ah beo jee
Jjah Keun Um Mah - Aunt (dad's oldest brother's younger brother's wife) ja geun eom ma

Sah Choon - Cousin
Oppa - Brother / older guy person by a few years
Unnie - Sister / older girl person by a few years
Ah Juh Shi - Elder person ah jeo shee - older male, usually said to someone who's around your dad's age.
Hal Muh Nee ?Grandma hal meo nee

Birthday song
Saeng Il Chuk Ha Hamnida saeng eel chook ha ham nee da
(Saeng Il ChukHa Hamnida)
Sarang Ha Neun (name)-eui, Saeng Il Chukha Hamnida


Birthday Song that makes fun of ppl (to tune of happy b-day in english)

wae tae yeo nat nee? - why were you born?
wae tae yeo nat nee? - why were you born?
bab ggap doo mot ha myeon seo - you can't even pay for your food.
wae tae yeo nat nee? - why were you born?

Birthday phrases
SeonMul Iya-This is my present. technically this means "this is a present" if you wana say "this is my present" then its "eegae nae seon mool ee ya"
Saeng Il Chuk Ha Hae- Happy birthday to you.(to your friends or younger people)
SarangHaNeun Chingueui Saeng Il ChukHa Hamnida--Happy birthday dear friend. "sarang ha neun cheen goo ae gae saeng ell chook ha ham nee da" "happy b-day to my friend that i love"
Pati Sijakhaja-Let's start the party pa tee shee jak ha ja

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I love you - Ssa rang hae sa rang hae
I hate you - Mee woh/Ssil uh mee weo// sheel eo
Get out - Na ga
I like you - Na nu joh ah na neo jo wa

I'm hungry - Bae go pah
Breakfast - Ah chim technically that just means "morning" breakfast is "ah cheem sheek sa"
Lunch - Jum shim jeon sheem
Dinner - Ju nyuk jae nyeok
Snack - Gwan shik gwa sheek
Kitchen - Buu huk boo eok

Song- no reh no rae
Dance - choom
Singer - Gah soo
Actor/actress - Bae hoo bae oo

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FORMAL

How are you? - annyeonghaseyo?
I'm fine, thanks. And you? - Nae, annyeonghaseyo? ppl dont say that. they say "nae, geu jjok eun yo?
Thank you. - gamsahamnida gam sa ham nee da
Sorry - Joesonghamnida jwae song ham nee da

INFORMAL

How are you doing? - jal isseosseo? that means were you doing fine? - jal eet seot seo?
I'm fine. - jal isseosseo means ,yeah i was doing fine

Nothing special - geunyang technically means "just"
Really? - jeongmal?
Are you serious? - jinjja?
Oh, yeah? - geurae? also means "really?"
You're lying! - geojinmal! geo jeet mal!
Are you lying? - geojinmariji? means you're lying right? - jeo jeet mal ee jee?
Don't lie! - geojinmal ma! geo jeet mal ma!
Stop lying! - geojinmal hajima! geunman hae! geu man hae literally means "stop it"
( "geumanhae" can also be said as ENOUGH )
I don't believe it - mideul su ga eopseo! mee deul soo ga eop seo// can also say: mee deul soo eop seo
You're joking! - nongdamiji! nong dam ee jee - means "you're joking right?
You're not joking? - nongdam aniji? dong dam a nee jee - means "you're not joking right?"
I'm not joking - nongdam aniya. nong dam a nee ya - means "its not a joke"

I guess so - geureoket jji means "i guess that's so" - geo reot kaet jjee
Maybe - geureol kkeoya means "that's probably true"
Maybe not - anil kkeoya means "that's probably not true"
I don't care - sang gwan an hae you can also say "san gwan eob seo"
I'm not interested - gwansim eopseo gwan sheem eop seo
You're crazy! - neo micheosseo! neo mee chyeot seo
Don't! - hajima! means "don't do it!"

I like it ! - joa!
- Me too - nado na doo

One moment - jamkkanman gidaryeo means wait just a minute - jam ggan man gee da ryeo
Not now - jigeummeun an dwae
I don't know - molla
Let's go! - gaja!
Hurry up - ppalli ppalli bbal lee bbal lee - not really "hurry up" how do i say this its like "allez allez vite vite" in french, and "andalez andalez" in spanish... ok?

Do you understand? - arasseo? arat seo
Can you understand me? - nae mal iaehae? nae mal ee ae hae?
I don't understand - iaega an dwae
I didn't understand - jal mollasseo jal mol lat seo
I couldn't understand - iaehal ssuga eopseosseo ee ae hal soo ga eop seot seo

Let's speak Korean! - han gungmallo haja! han gook mal lo ha ja

I don't want to talk - yaegihago sipjji ana yae gee ha go sheep jee ana
I don't want to hear about it - geureon mal deut kko sipjji ana geu reon mal deut go sheep jee ana
Don't make excuses! - byeonmyeong haji ma
Stop complaining - bulpyeong jom hajima

I'm going - na gal kkeoya
I'm not going - na an gal kkeoya
Don't go! - gaji ma!
I'm going/leaving - na ganda
Shall we go? - uri galkka? oo ree gal gga?
Where are you going? - neo eodiga?

I'm hungry - na baegopa
Have you eaten? - neo bap meogeosseo? neo bap meo geot seo?
I haven't eaten yet - ajik an meogeosseo a jeek an meo geot seo
I'm thirsty - na mongmalla na mok mal la
Wow! This tastes god! - wa! masit tta! wa ma sheet da!
More! More! - Deo! deo! ummmm... no one says that...
Water - mul mool
Give me some - na jom jwo na joom jo
Enough? - chungbunae? choon boon hae

I'm bored - simsimae! shee sheem hae!
I feel sick - na apa.
I'm going crazy - na michigesseo na mee chee gaet seo
I'm mad - na hwanasseo na hwa nat seo
I'm sleepy - na jollyeo na jol lyeo
I'm tired - na pigonae na pee gon hae
I'm dissappointed - na silmanghaesseo na sheel mang haet seo
What a pity! - cham an dwaetta cham an dwaet da
I can do it - na hal su isseo na hal soo eet seo

Hello - yeoboseyo yeo beo sae yo? - on the phone
Wait a minute - jamkkanman jam ggan man
What are you doing? - jigeum mwo hae?
Shall we meet now? - jigeum mannalkka? jee geum man nal gga?
I wanna see you - na neo bogo sipeo
I can't go out now - jigeum mannaga jee geum mot na a
I'll call you tomorrow - naega naeil jeonwahalkke nae ga nae eel jeon hwa hal ggae
Bye! - jal isseo! (normally said by the person who called) means "stay well!"
Yes - geurae

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Who=nugu(nuu-guu) noogoo
Who are you? = Taegun nugu simnikka?(tay-guun nuu-guu sheem nee- kah?) so... what is "taegun" supposed to mean?... i dont understand
Who is that?= Kuge nugujiyo?(kuu-gay nuu-guu-jee-yoh?) geu gae noo goo jee yo?
Who is that man?=Chobunun nugu shimnikka?(choh-buu-nuun nuu guu sheem nee kah?) jeo boon eun noo goo sheem nee gga?

What =muot(mwaht) moo eot
What is this?=Igosun muoshijiyo?(Ee-guh-suun mwah-she-jee-yoh?) ee geot seun moo eot shee jee yo?
What is the price?=Kapshi olma jiyo?(Kop-she ohl-mah jee-yoh?) gap shee eol ma jee yo?
What did you say?=Muorago Hasyotchiyo?(Mwah-rah-go hah-shoat-chee-yoh?) mweo ra go ha shyeot jee yo?
What does _____mean?=______ga musun dushieyo?(____gah muu-suhn duu-she eh-yoh?) ______ ga moo seun deut shee yae yo?

When=onje(ahn-jay) eon jae
When shall we start?=Onje ttonalkkayo?(Ohn-jay ttohn-ahl-kah-yoh?) eon jae ddeo nal gga yo? - this means "when are we going to leave?" // when are we going to start? - eon jae shee jak hal gga yo?

Where where - eo dee
Where(in/to what place) odiro(ah-dee-ruh) means "where to?" - eo dee ro?
Where are you going?=Odiro kashim nikka? (Ah-dee-ruh kah-sheem nee-kah?) eo dee ro ga sheem nee gga?
Where(at what place)=odiso(ah-dee-suh) eo dee seo
Where do you live?=Odiso salgo kyeshim nikka?(Ah-dee-suh sahl-go keh-sheem nee-kah?) eo dee seo sal go gyae sheem nee gga?

Why=wae(way)
Why not?=Wae an toejiyo?(Way-ahn tway-joe?) what does "teojiyo?" mean? what are you trying to say?

How=ottoke?(aht-tah-keh) eo teok kae?
How are you doing?=Ottoke chinae shimnikka?(Aht-tah-kay chee-nay sheem-nee-kah?) eo teok kae jee nae sheem nee gga?
How old are you?=Myot sarim nikka?(M'yaht sah-reem nee-kah?) myeot sal eem nee gga?
How many are there?=Olmana mani Issumnikka?(Ohl-mah-nah mah-nee ee-sume-nee-kah?) eol ma na ma nee eet seum nee gga?
How much do you want?=Olmana piryo hamnikka? =Ohl-mah-nah pee-rio hahm nee-kah?) eol ma na pee ryo ham nee gga?
How do you say_____?=_____rul mworago haeyo?(____ruhl mwah-rah-go hay-yoh?) ____ reul mweo ra go hae yo?


credits::jaejoong's kitchen

http://boadbsklover.multiply.com/reviews/item/1

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Good Day - IU

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RQ: Being fun vs being scary

"When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. 
Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. 
You could break a bone or a heart. 
You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there's no safety net. 
When did it stop being fun and start being scary?" 
- Sex and the City

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Hello June!

Hello June! It's been awhile since I updated my blog. Oh well the reason behind that is because of my laziness to write something that I can post here and also how busy I've been at work lately. 


June will be a busy month for me at work. We are working on the next phase of the project so we've been doing a lot of documentation, reviews, meetings, etc.


Ate emz (cousin), gave birth to a very pretty chinita baby girl named Anakiel something.. her name is so difficult to remember and spell.. I call her baby Cheska. Guess what? I'm one of the Ninangs in her binyag next month! Cute! hehe


Ate zhay (cousin), went to Korea last week because she will start living there with her husband. I really miss her so much because we've been sooooo close since birth! Hah! Yes! She's like a real sister to me. I just hope she will enjoy her life in Daejeon Korea. I hope I can visit her someday.


Mmm.. what else? That's all that I can remember and share for now. I'm gonna think of what else can I write her so I can keep my blog updated. Hehe.. For now, I just want to eat because I'm starving! Haha ^^v

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By Chance (You & I)


BY CHANCE (YOU AND I )
J.R.A

Hi
Girl, you just caught my eye
thought I should give it a try
and get your name and your number
go grab some lunch and eat some cucumbers

WHY, DID I SAY THAT?
I don't know why.
But you're smilin' and it's something' I like
on your face, yeah it suits you
Girl, we connect like we have bluetooth

I don't know why
I'm drawn to you
Could you be the other one so we'd equal two?
And this is all based on a lucky chance
that you would rather add then subtract

You and I
could be like Sonny and Cher
honey and bears
You and I
could be like Aladdin and Jasmine
lets make it happen

La La's

Hey
How've you been?
I know that it's been awhile.
Are you tired 'cause you've been on my mind
runnin' thousand and thousands of miles
Sorry, I know that line's outta style
but you
you look so beautiful on that starry night
loving the way the moonlight catches your eyes and your smile
I'm captivated
your beauty is timeless never outdated

I don't know why
I'm drawn to you
Could you be the other one so we'd equal two?
and this is all based on a lucky chance
that you would rather add then subtract

You and I
could be like Sonny and Cher
Honey and bears
you and i could be like Aladdin and Jasmine lets make it happen

la la la

Babe
It's been 5 years since that special day
when I asked you on our first date
I guess it's safe to say

You and I
are better than Sonny and Cher
Honey and bears
You and I
Are better than Aladdin and Jasmine
We've made it happen

lalalalalala

Let me say
You look so beautiful on our wedding day

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