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An online diary of someone who tends to forget easily.

Seriously?!

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Trust...


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Maganda vs Malandi


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Malandi ka ba?


Iba't ibang klase ng MALANDI (Re-blogged)

1) Malanding-sulutera- Yung mga taong alam naman nilang may karelasyon yung tao, todo parin sa panlalandi. Pilit gagawin ang lahat makuha lang yung taong gusto nila kahit alam nilang committed na. 

2) Malanding-joke- Yung nanlalandi, pero hindi seryoso na as in nilalandi niya dahil gusto niyang maging sila. Kumbaga parang trip lang ba, yung panlalandi. Parang katuwaan lang niya. 

3) Malanding-friends with benefits - Yung mga taong nakikipagpaibigan lang dahil may hidden agenda. 

4) Malanding- sweet - Yung sweet mo lang pero di mo namamalayan napapaasa mo na pala yung tao, therefore belong ka sa malanding type.

5) Malanding-seryoso- Malandi talaga ang peg, yung gagawin ang lahat para mapansin siya ng taong nagugustuhan niya. 

Heto pa...


SM (Simpleng Malandi)
— Sila yung mga malalandi na pasimple kung gumalaw. Kumbaga magugulat ka nalang na iba na ung bf nya. O sila na nung lalaki. Tahimik kumilos ung mga ganito. 

 LM (Lantarang Malandi)
—Eto ung mga malandi na harap harapan. Ung hindi nahihiya kung PDA ba. Yung mga sobrang mapapa nganga ka talaga kapag nalandi ka nya. Kadalasan eto ung kinaiinisan ng lahat.

Malanding Malandi
— Eto ung malandi na naninira ng relasyon. Aamin kunyari sa lalaki na mahal nya pero ang totoo nilalandi nya din para mapunta sakanya. Yung kahit sino nalang papatusin. 

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After the fight...

The great thing about being with someone you love is when you fight and hurt each other but at the end of the day you'll realize it's better to lower your pride to apologize and work things out. No matter how mad you are with your partner you still want to be hugged. You can't imagine your life without him/her. You'd rather have fights with him sometimes in your relationship than losing him because of a fight. Sometimes you'll hurt each other but what's important is you still make sure that the love is still there.. no matter how mad and hurt you may feel. 

You both have to accept that no one is perfect. No relationship is perfect. There will come a time that you will fight over small or big things. What matter is you work things out and after the fight you learned your lessons. You acknowledge the fact that you both have contribution on whatever misunderstandings or reason you might have for that fight. You realize how much you really love and how much you are loved because no matter how bad you may be.. there's still someone who will always stay by your side. He/she may hurt you.. nag at you.. but the love he/she have for you will always be there. I guess that love will make him/her soften her heart to realize that fights should not be the reason to hate each other but love each other.

I guess that's love. When you really love the person, you can't stay mad at him/her for too long. One way or another even if you're hurting, you'll sacrifice your ego/pride just to be 'okay' with your partner. Being in a relationship does not always mean thinking about yourself, but most of the times, it's setting aside what you feel for the sake of your partner. Even if you're hurt and mad, you'll still choose to hug him and apologize. 

The reasons why you fight may sometimes be unreasonable or shallow or simple. It may not be a big deal but you made it so big, but then, as long as you let your partner know how you feel, and he explains his side, try to meet halfway. Just remember how much you love each other and the experiences you had together. Being with someone, being in a relationship doesn't mean that you'll always have 'good times' together, sometimes your relationship gets stronger when you are both tested by some challenges that can make you give up. That's the time you'll know how strong you are not only as a couple, but also as an individual. 

I'm glad I have someone who is stronger than me. He's teaching me a lot of things. Most of all, he love me so much no matter how crazy I can be most of the times. :)

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Strangers Again


Here's a very interesting short clip that my friend posted in Facebook. I think it's worth the watch especially for those who are in a relationship right now. I also want to share this comment from one of the viewers of this video.

To everyone who is going through the cycle: don't give up. If you're a guy, take the lead and make an effort to pour love into the relationship. Put down the controller and go care for your girl. She will respond. Been thru the cycle and back. Now married for 3 yrs. We still have our moments but our love has matured since. Love isn't sexy feelings you had in the beginning. Those will surely fade. Love is sacrifice and commitment. Some may think that's hard, but love isn't supposed to be easy.

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Girls' favorite topic!

I just realized how lucky some men are. You know why? Most of us girls ALWAYS talk about them. We talk about you when we are with our girlfriends, family, relatives, and colleagues. The topic of our blog is YOU most of the times. Sometimes be it happy or sad, single or in a relationship, happily taken or heart broken, the topic of our Facebook posts, tweets in Twitter, etc.. they are mostly about YOU. 

We post your pictures everywhere. Share with our loved ones what kind of human being are you. Haha! We are so proud of YOU. It's always YOU. 

Sometimes I can see some of my friends who are boys that do the same thing for their girl and I find it so sweet.



I don't know what with YOU boys that we girls love to talk about you. Maybe that's how much we love you. We want to tell the whole world about our feelings and our relationship. I hope some of YOU appreciate that effort. Don't be irritated if your girlfriend posts most of your photos in her social networking accounts or blogs! Haha! I find it cute and sweet. 

Why can't YOU do some of the things to your girl sometimes. Show how much you love and how proud of you to have her as your girl in every way possible.. in some unexpected ways. 

I just shared this one because I noticed that I'm one of those girls. I love talking about him. He's my favorite topic. I bet I'm not his, hehe! Anyway, that's how girls are. We are just really... cute! Haha!

I don't know how to end this post or what title should I give this one, so I'll just end it by saying, GIRLS ROCKS! :>

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HE gave me you instead...

"Sometimes God doesn't give us what we want.." - I really agree in quote that I always see everywhere. I see it in Facebook posts, someone's tweet in Twitter, or even in quotation websites that I sometimes check when I'm looking for an inspiring quote that I can share with everyone in Facebook and Twitter.. now I'm sharing it in Blogger.

Let me write about how I proved that this quote is true. I'll tell you something about my favorite topic to blog about. Yes, this quote has something to do with my love life. Hehe!

Since I was a kid I was known to be someone that enjoys watching various TV shows or movies, read books, and listen to different kind of stories especially if they have a very interesting love story. At a very young age I already experienced how is it like to admire someone. Someone who likes me as well. Someone that really know how to show he cares for his special someone. I'm talking about my childhood sweetheart. The boy who I liked for over 4 years! The one who I always talk about with my cousin and my sister. The topic of my diary. Someone I thought I'll like forever. He's someone who taught me how to like someone, how it feels like to be admired, and how bad it is when you're hurt by the same person who showed you so much kindness. He's someone that I'll forever remember because he's a very good memory to keep.. though sometimes I can't really remember everything that happened in the past.

After experiencing my very first heartbreak when I was just an elementary student, and as I continue living, I realized that it's a cycle. You will meet a stranger, get to know each other, like each other, fight with him/her, breakup, and then you go back to how it started, you're back to being strangers. I got used to that cycle for years. From one heartbreak to the next. I've been heart broken for several times. I've dealt with breaking up until I learned how to move on. It wasn't easy but it's doable.

Then as you may already know, if you're reading my blog, I mentioned that after my failed relationships I've been single for almost 3 years. I had a great life in those 3 years. As I enjoy life without a special someone I learned to be independent, to spend a lot of time with my family, friends, relatives. I often go out to shop and eat in a mall or somewhere with my mom and sister. Though it was fun there are also times when I felt so lonely that I wanted to have a boyfriend as soon as possible. Haha!

I also asked God to send me someone that I really deserve and someone that won't let go of me no matter how hard it is to be with me. I wanted to have someone who is a very loving person. Someone who is always showing how much he loves me in his own ways. I also like being hugged sometimes but I want to be always hugged and kissed in the morning to wake me up and at night before we sleep and to tell me that he loves me so much. I want to have that someone who will stare at some girls who are better than me but will eventually tell me that I'm better than them just to stop me from transforming from a normal me to a green eyed monster. I want someone who will hold my hand while walking. Someone who will sometimes surprisingly kiss me on my cheek or forehead in public and laugh. Someone who will do everything he can do to make me feel loved. These are just some of the simple things I want  him to do. I think most of these only happens in movies. 


Then here comes GW. He did not have everything that I looked for in a man. He's not really someone that I asked God to give me. I did not get everything that I asked to have. But guess what? Despite that I believe and I'm so grateful that HE gave me someone that really love me. Someone who will not let go no matter how bitchy, moody, impatient, and sensitive, I can be most of the times. He's not very expressive by doing what I just mentioned in the previous paragraph. On the other hand, I think I became more showy on how I love him when we started being together here in a different country. I always hug him. I love hugging him. You know why? I love his smell. I love how great the feeling is when I'm hugging him. It feels like home. Hehe! I don't know how to properly describe it but when something is bothering me or something makes me feel sad and when I don't want to tell it to him, what I do is just hug him to comfort myself. Hehe! I also hug him and sometimes whisper 'I love you', I don't know if he can hear it but it's okay. 

Sometimes to make him feel loved I do things like hugging him or holding his hands, he's not very good at that. He's very patient and understanding with my imperfections, I'm very impatient and childish. I think we complement each other. 

We all have our imperfections. It's normal for couples to fight. Some may want to breakup because of a very simple problem. Some may want to work it out no matter how difficult it is. Some may get tired of fighting. Some may fight to save the relationship despite of constant fighting over shallow things. For our relationship I hope we are strong enough to overcome everything that will challenge us as couple. I hope he won't let go. I hope he'll continue to teach me how to hold on when I'm beginning to let go. I hope we'll survive everything together. Sometimes it can be so tiring and frustrating especially when I'm upset, but I can't entertain the thought of losing him and sacrificing our relationship, our experiences together because of a simple fight. I love how he make me understand when I can't understand some things that makes me feel bad. I love that he hugs me when I'm upset and crying while I'm complaining. I love how he makes me feel loved. 

In the end, God didn't gave me everything I want in a man, but he gave me someone who can offer more than what I wanted. Someone I need. Someone I deserve. Someone who loves me so much. Someone I can't lose. HE gave me better than what I asked for.. and for that I'm so grateful and I feel so blessed.

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